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A healthy relationship is based on RESPECT.

It’s when:

  • You have fun together
  • You both feel like you can be yourself
  • You can have different opinions and interests
  • You listen to each other
  • You trust each other
  • You can both compromise, say sorry, and talk arguments out
  • You don’t have to spend all your time together – you can spend time on your own, or with your own friends and family
  • You both accept each other saying no to things such as sex
  • You don’t feel intimidated or controlled
  • You both feel safe being with each other

High Risk? Think Safety First!

Nobody wants to spoil the fun and everyone wants to have a good time. When you experiment with alcohol or drugs you need to have a safety plan so that unpleasant, unexpected or unwanted things do not happen to you.

Safety Plan for Drinking

Never leave your drink unattended

Watch the bartender mix your drink

Know your limits

Have a designated non-drinker with you or your group

Don’t drink from a punch bowl

If your drink has an unusual taste or color it may mean a drug has been slipped into it

Safety Plan on a Date

Be aware of your surroundings

Avoid secluded areas

Trust your instincts

Go on group dates with friends

Always have your own way home in case of an emergency

Don’t be afraid to say "NO"

Problems teens report when drinking include:

Having sex when they wouldn’t have if they were straight

Drunk teens raping or being raped

Having unprotected sex

Getting violent

Being a victim of violence

Consequences can include:

  • Pregnancy
  • Sexually transmitted infections
  • HIV & AIDS
  • Trouble with police / law enforcement
  • Injuries
  • School problems
  • Parent / family problems

 

Teen Issues

For more information on any of these issues please see the links below.

Depression

Depression is a clinical term used to describe a period of time when a person feels unhappy and very sad. In contrast to the normal emotional experiences of sadness, loss, or passing mood states, clinical depression is persistent and can interfere significantly with an individual’s ability to function in daily life.

Symptoms of depression can include:

Feelings of despair and hopelessness

Feeling detached

Continued fatigue / loss of energy

Inability to concentrate at school or home

Changes in eating patterns (overeating or loss of appetite)

Changes in sleeping patterns (insomnia or excessive sleeping)

Frequent headaches

Frequent stomach problems

Loss of interest in activities

Thoughts of suicide

 

Suicide

The Facts:

  • Suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death for teens in Canada
  • 80% of suicides are committed by people who are depressed
  • More than 3,500 Canadians commit suicide every year
  • 1 in 25 Canadians attempt suicide during their lifetime
  • 11 Canadians die of suicide each day – everyday
  • Problems that cause teens to consider suicide:

  • Physical abuse
  • Sexual abuse
  • Emotional abuse or neglect
  • Depression
  • Exposure to domestic violence
  • Divorce of parents
  • Substance abuse (drug or alcohol)
  • Experiencing the loss or death of a family member or friend
  • Feelings of isolation
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    Suicidal actions are often a cry for help and suicide can be prevented if we watch for warning signs such as:

    • Changes in personality
    • Withdrawn behaviour
    • Lack of interest in everyday activities
    • Lack of interest in making plans for the future
    • Isolation
    • Depression
    • Abusing drugs and/or alcohol
    • Self-mutilation

    If you are feeling depressed and/or having suicidal thoughts please talk to someone you trust and seek medical help and/or counselling to help you get through this. If you feel that you have nobody to talk to you can call a helpline such as the Kids Help Phone 1 800 668-6868.

     

    Eating Disorders

    Eating disorders are very complex problems that mostly develop in women but have been becoming more common in men as well. People develop eating disorders for many different reasons such as:

  • Pressures from media and society
  • Family problems
  • Low self-esteem
  • Depression
  • Experiencing some form of abuse (sexual, physical, emotional)
  • To attempt to gain control in life
  • Anorexia Nervosa

    Anorexia is characterized by drastic weight loss due to excessive dieting which is usually accompanied by over exercising. People who are anorexic usually have a distorted image of what their body looks like so they have intense fears of gaining weight when they are already extremely thin and underweight.

    Signs and Symptoms

  • Extreme weight loss
  • Preoccupation with weight and food
  • Distorted body image
  • Over exercising
  • Low self-esteem
  • Withdrawn behaviour
  • Change in sleeping pattern
  • Dizziness and/or fainting
  • Bulimia Nervosa

    Bulimia Nervosa is characterized by reoccurring episodes of binge eating followed by a form of purging such as self-induced vomiting, overuse of laxatives, excessive exercising, or fasting. People who are bulimic are usually within the normal weight range so it can be quite difficult to recognize bulimia most of the time.

    Signs and Symptoms

  • Frequent weight fluctuations
  • Change in sleeping pattern
  • Alternates between dieting and binge eating
  • Low self-esteem
  • Disappearing after meals
  • Frequent sore throats
  • Swollen glands
  • Frequent bloating
  • Frequent abdominal pains
  • Dental problems due to erosion of tooth enamel
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    Self-Harm

    Self-harm is the act of causing deliberate physical harm to one’s body. Self injury can be caused many ways such as: cutting, burning, scratching, hair pulling, hitting, breaking bones, and preventing wounds from healing. It is usually not a suicide attempt but a way of finding relief and coping with overwhelming emotions. Self-harm also known as self injury or self abuse is most common among women especially youth. It is difficult to know just how common it is though because most injuries are not seen by a doctor as people who self-harm are usually very secretive about it.

    Warning signs

    • Unexplained frequent injuries
    • Inappropriate clothing for the weather (long sleeves in the summer)
    • Wearing a lot of bracelets or things to cover arms
    • Low self-esteem
    • Problems handling emotions
    • Problems with relationships
    • Withdrawn behaviour
    • Missing razors
    • Excessive use of bandages and first aid supplies

    If you are having problems dealing with your emotions and are injuring yourself try talking to someone you trust about what is going on. You can also get help from your doctor or a counsellor or find a support group in your area.

    For more information on any of these issues please see the links below.

     

    Useful Links

    Centre for Addiction and Mental Health www.camh.net

    Canadian Mental Health Association www.ontario.cmha.ca

    Internet Safety www.kinsa.net

    Healthy Sexuality www.spiderbytes.ca

    Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans Youth Line www.youthline.ca

    Relationships/Dating Violence

    www.seeitandstopit.org

    www.dvirc.org.au/whenlove

    www.deal.org

    www.yesmeansyes.com

    www.citizenship.gov.on.ca/owd/english/youthzone/preventing

    www.metrac.org/programs/info/replay.htm

    Manage stress, crisis and mental health problems

    www.mindyourmind.ca

    Depression and Suicide

    www.thekeltyfoundation.org

    Teen issues

    www.reachout.com.au

     

    Community Programs

    Check out some of the programs offered by:

    Girls Inc. www.girlsinc-uppercanada.org

    Connect Youth Inc. www.connectyouth.ca

    YMCA www.brockvilley.com

     

    Resources Available

    Counselling - call office for availability
    Medical -
    BGH Emergency Department - ARCC nurse on-call
    Office -
    books, pamphlets, videos on a number of topics

     

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